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A person who lacks romantic attraction or interest in romantic expression. An aromantic person’s sexual and romantic orientations may differ (e.g. aromantic lesbian), and they may have romantic and/or sexual partners.
A person who lacks sexual attraction or interest in sexual expression. An asexual person’s sexual and romantic orientations may differ (e.g. biromantic asexual), and they may have sexual and/or romantic partners.
A person who is sexually and/or romantically attracted to two or more genders. (similar: biromantic)
A person who identifies with the gender they were assigned at birth. Commonly shortened to just “cis”.
*This term is no longer in common use. See “gay” and “lesbian”.
The term homosexual has fallen out of favour as it is associated with the historic medical understanding of same-sex attraction as a mental illness. However, equivalents of “homosexual” are commonly used in French and other languages.
An umbrella term to capture various types of biological sex differentiation. Intersex people have variations in their sex characteristics, such as sex chromosomes, internal reproductive organs, genitalia, and/or secondary sex characteristics (e.g. muscle mass, breasts) that fall outside of what is typically categorized as male or female.
Typically a woman who is sexually and/or romantically attracted to other women.
A person who is sexually and/or romantically attracted to people of their same sex or gender identity. Traditionally this identity was reserved for men, but it has been adopted by people of all gender identities.
Gender expression refers to the various ways in which people choose to express their gender identity. For example: clothes, voice, hair, make-up, etc. A person’s gender expression may not align with societal expectations of gender. It is therefore not a reliable indicator of a person’s gender identity.
Gender is the internal and deeply felt sense of being a man or woman, both or neither. A person’s gender identity may or may not align with the gender typically associated with their sex. It may change over the course of one’s lifetime.
A person whose gender identity varies over time and may include male, female and non-binary gender identities.
Gender is a construct, typically upheld by systematic oppression of women and people of colour. The rigid enforcement of gender binaries supports structures which inherently reduce a person’s identity into either man or woman are rooted in eugenics, the erasure of non-European descendants and the slave trade. Therefore, gender is an outdated and unreliable indicator of a person’s worth or capabilities.
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(also ‘genderqueer’). Referring to a person whose gender identity does not align with a binary understanding of gender such as man or woman. It is a gender identity which may include man and woman, androgynous, fluid, multiple, no gender, or a different gender outside of the “woman—man” spectrum.
A person whose choice of sexual or romantic partner is not limited by the other person’s sex, gender identity or gender expression.
Historically a derogatory term used as a slur against 2SLGBTQI+ people, this term has been reclaimed by many 2SLGBTQI+ people as a positive way to describe themselves, and as a way to include the many diverse identities not covered by common 2SLGBTQI+ acronym.
A person who is uncertain about their sexual orientation and/or gender identity; this can be a transitory or a lasting identity.
Romantic and sexual attraction for people of the same or another sex or gender.
(also Two Spirit or Two-Spirited). An English term used to broadly capture concepts traditional to many Indigenous cultures. It is a culturally-specific identity used by some Indigenous people to indicate a person whose gender identity, spiritual identity and/or sexual orientation comprises both male and female spirits.
The fear, hatred, or aversion of people whose gender identities differ from the sex they were assigned at birth. Transphobia can be systemic and/or discriminatory when it creates barriers and hardships for people who openly identify as transgender, or are perceived to be gender non-conforming.
*No longer in common use, this term may be more frequently used by transgender individuals of an older cohort. The term defines a person whose gender identity differs from their sex assigned at birth and who has undertaken gender affirming medical and/or surgical interventions. The term has fallen out of favour as it implies that physical transition is necessary in order to claim a trans identity.
Some definitions have been copied or adapted from the 2SLGBTQI+ terminology – Glossary and common acronyms from the Government of Canada website, which allows non-commercial reproduction.